NIGHTMARE

The Moroccan women fighting daily sexual harassment

  • 10 October 2016
  • From the section Magazine

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In Morocco, it’s
not easy for women to walk the streets unmolested. Morgan Meaker hears
from some who want to put an end to endemic harassment.

For
Ghizlane Ahblain, the word “whore” is a constant refrain in the
soundtrack of her home city, Marrakesh. A stomach-punch of a word, it’s
hurled from the pink-tinged doorways and from the rickety motorbikes
whose engines gasp for breath on the city’s choked main roads.
“In
Morocco, everything you do, you’re a whore,” says Ghizlane, who works
at a hotel. “If you wear lipstick, you’re a whore. If you wear a
headscarf, you’re a whore.”
Frustration spills out of the small
but fierce 30-year-old Moroccan as she sits on a cafe terrace in central
Marrakesh. Like many women in Morocco, Ghizlane experiences sexual
harassment on a daily basis. But a few years ago, she started to fight
back.


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Her tactic is to make a scene,
making it harder for men who harass women on the street, both physically
and orally. She sparks an argument with the man who mutters: “You’ve
got lovely legs”, or loudly accuses another of theft after he makes
sexist comments at the bank. “More people should denounce this
behaviour,” she says. “Men in my country don’t know when to stop.”
With
her master’s degree and short skirt, Ghizlane admits she’s no typical
Moroccan woman. But she’s not alone in standing up to sexual harassment.

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Frances Bakewell

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Ghizlaine Abhlain: “In Morocco, everything you do, you’re a whore”

In Rabat, the country’s seaside capital, I wait for
Mo outside the central station. She slides along gleaming floor tiles, a
curtain of brown hair down her back. Our conversation is awkward. She
says she doesn’t usually talk about women’s rights – her friends aren’t
very interested.
“My dream is that Moroccan women learn how to
stop sexual harassment,” she says. “When someone harasses them, I dream
of the women breaking his face.”
She tried to start a
self-defence class but had to apply to the government for permission.
Her application was ignored. Instead she’s been confronting street
harassers herself, one by one. “When someone tries to touch me,” she
says, “I scream at him. I say, ‘Why are you doing this?’ These men don’t
understand. I never get a positive reaction.”
But with a draft
bill on sexual harassment currently being considered by Morocco’s
parliament, persistent street harassers could soon face between one and
six months in prison or a fine of between $250 (£170) and $1,200 (£800).

It sounds positive. Is there a catch?

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“We think it’s a terrible bill,” says Stephanie
Willman Bordat, an American expat who’s worked on women’s rights here
for 21 years. Her office in Rabat is a safe haven from the catcalls and
marriage proposals that photographer Frances and I have been attracting
on the streets outside.
“It’s really just making minor
adjustments to the existing criminal code,” she says. “The whole problem
is that women don’t report, police don’t investigate and prosecutors
don’t prosecute.”
Later, she emails me a story from 2015 which
explains why women don’t trust the system. It’s from Inezgane,
south-west Morocco. After being harassed by a group of men, two women
sought refuge in a nearby shop where they waited for the police. When
the officers arrived, instead of protecting the pair, they arrested them
– because their dresses were, they said, “too short”.
But street
harassment doesn’t just leave women with that silenced, suffocating
sense of feeling violated. In Morocco, it also limits their freedoms –
the freedom to get an education, to go to work, to feel safe in the
place they call home.
And while a shift in attitudes could still
take decades, in the short term, reforming the law on sexual harassment
does send a clear message – about what is acceptable and what isn’t.
About who can be picked on with impunity and who can’t.

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A 2015 protest in Morocco against sexual harassment

Not every woman in Morocco has the energy to fight
back against harassment. Many simply mould their lives around it,
avoiding friction. Wandering through Rabat’s old city fortress,
businesswoman Gitana tells me how she avoids men’s comments, and their
attempts to touch her, by travelling everywhere by car.
Together,
we look down at the beach. The Atlantic ocean blurs into the monochrome
Moroccan sky. I notice there are only boys swimming in the water. I
ask my new friend, “Do you think, maybe, it would be OK to go swimming…
in a bikini?”
Giggling, she says, “I mean, you could…” She pauses awkwardly looking into the blue on blue below. “But I would never…”
I
think again of Ghizlane in Marrakech and her daily battles. Before she
slipped away into the smoke-laced crowds, she looked at me earnestly,
through oblong-shaped glasses, and said: “It’s definitely not easy to be
Moroccan and a woman.”
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