Vicar resigns after being ‘silenced’ over a Church of England school’s plan to keep an eight-year-old pupil’s sex change a secret from parents
- John Parker said children were being ‘sacrificed on the altar of trans ideology’
- He feared that staff had been misled by the transgender lobby group Mermaids
- Rev Parker, an Oxford Biology graduate, spoke out against ‘unscientific’ lecture
- But his opposition was shut down by trans group, leaving the vicar in tears
A vicar has resigned following a bitter dispute with his bishop over the way a Church of England school handled an eight-year-old pupil’s plan to change gender.
The Reverend John Parker, a governor at the school, supported the boy’s wish to become a girl but said he was silenced when he raised concerns that parents and pupils would be kept in the dark.
He also feared that staff and governors had been misled by the transgender lobby group Mermaids, which had been invited in to advise the school.
After his worries were dismissed by the bishop, Mr Parker quit the church where he had been a vicar for 14 years, and also the school after seven years as governor.
The Reverend John Parker, a governor at the school, supported the boy’s wish to become a girl but said he was silenced when he raised concerns that parents and pupils would be kept in the dark
Mr Parker quit the church where he had been a vicar for 14 years, and also the school after seven years as governor
In an emotive resignation letter to his bishop, Mr Parker wrote of his fear that children were being ‘sacrificed on the altar of trans ideology’, even in Church schools.
Mr Parker said last night: ‘I was basically told by my bishop that if I wished to faithfully follow the teachings of the Bible then I was no longer welcome in the Church. It felt very much like I was being silenced by the Church and the school.’
The dispute comes amid growing controversy over the number of children now choosing to change gender.
Mr Parker, 49, was told in March that an eight-year-old pupil would be transitioning from a boy to a girl at the primary school in an Essex village. The Mail on Sunday is not naming the school to protect the privacy of the pupils.
He raised concerns that the school had no formal policy on how staff should deal with a child who wanted to change gender.
There was no guidance to cover matters such as whether the student would be allowed to use the girls’ toilets or share changing rooms and accommodation with female pupils during trips away.
Mr Parker was equally keen to receive assurances that other pupils and parents would be told about the student’s transition so they could be prepared.
In an emotive resignation letter to his bishop, Mr Parker wrote of his fear that children were being ‘sacrificed on the altar of trans ideology’, even in Church schools
He asked for evidence that the child had seen a psychologist or a medical professional to ensure that the desire to live as a girl was not being driven by the parents – but his request was dismissed.
The vicar also questioned whether any ‘pastoral provisions’ had been made for Christian parents and children who might be confused about what was going on at the school.
But Mr Parker said when he put these points to the head teacher at a meeting, she dismissed them as merely being his ‘personal views’.
He said she told him she was legally bound by the Equality Act not to deviate from the way she was already handling the transition, and that parents would not be informed about what was happening.
Mr Parker said: ‘After the head told us about the plan to allow the pupil to transition, the school suddenly turned into a place where you did not even have the freedom to question things. I felt it was no longer a Christian place of grace and truth – it was a place of oppression.’
But the most disturbing episode for the softly spoken clergyman was yet to come. In April, the transgender youth charity and campaign group Mermaids was invited into the school to deliver a training session to teachers and governors.
Mr Parker, 49, was told in March that an eight-year-old pupil would be transitioning from a boy to a girl at the primary school in an Essex village
According to Mr Parker, the head said she had brought in the group on the advice of the diocese and the local authority.
Mermaids has previously attracted criticism for advocating the prescription of sex-change hormones to youngsters under 16.
During a two-hour presentation, the Mermaids trainer, who said she had a ‘background in education’, instructed the group on a range of complex subjects including neurology, biology of the sexes, transgender mental health and equality laws.
She insisted it would be illegal to deny anyone the use of the toilets or changing rooms for the gender they identify as, and warned using the wrong pronoun for a transgender child would be a ‘hate crime’.
Many of the points made in the lecture – including sections on the science of biological sex – were simply wrong, contends Mr Parker, who studied biology at Oxford.
At the end of the session, which was recorded by Mr Parker, those who attended were told they could ask questions.
But when the vicar politely attempted to query what he considered to be legal and scientific falsehoods, he was aggressively shut down.
‘The presentation was so full of factual inaccuracies,’ he said. ‘I am an Oxford biologist by background so I was gobsmacked by what was being said from a biological perspective.